Okay, everyone I have a proposition. This year we will be less judgmental and happier for other people! Could you imagine what a world we would live in if people could just be happy for others accomplishments? I know that sounds super cliché, BUT it's so true! I attend a university where almost everyone is a master/genius in their respective talents/activities. I spent a good portion of my first half of freshman year comparing myself to these incredibly talented people when (in retrospect) I should have been happy for these people and should have felt blessed to be amongst them. I've learned to appreciate others interests on such a deeper level than I ever had before.
People's dislike for other's interests is filling the world with negativity and hurt feelings. It's all over the internet, social media and in everyday conversation and the lack of understanding and appreciation for those talents and interests is causing major contention.
Let's look at a boy who (off the tope of my head) is an amazing artist. In his high school, painting and drawing isn't a cool thing to do (as a guy). He creates these beautiful pieces and is highly respected amongst his artistic community, but is made fun of by fellow classmates.
All that runs through my head when that happens is, "Let's see you try and do what he does!" The same goes for those who call football stars "dumb meatheads" or actors "drama freaks" or whatever! Everyone has something that they're good at, and no "thing" is more important or more difficult than another. Yes there are some things that world sees as more important, and that's why doctors are paid so much. But every "thing" is important to almost all of us.
For example, you may think cheerleaders are stupid and are only there to look pretty (which they always do look very pretty.) But let's think about the core of cheerleading. It's exercise and having control over your body. Which in fact you do need to do to stay healthy. Now let us look at computer or techie kids. Let's be real, if you aren't using a computer by now you will soon. Technology is becoming so important in our world and the fact that these people are making it easier, better and more entertaining is only benefiting our lives.
Don't get me wrong, I am by no means perfect in the area of love, compassion or non-judgemental-ness. BUT what I have become perfect in is my efforts to TRY and see the good in all fields and in all people.
There's no need to judge or compare. Be happy for others accomplishments and talents. Be a little selfish and feel happy for yourself sometimes! And always always recognize the blessings in your life. There are more there than you think!
Love you guys!
